Indian society

India is called an incredible country because the variety of people one can see here can never be seen in the whole world.

For being a girl in India is a big deal,, when a girl is born in India,, everyone gets happy but in their heart they always to wish for a boy,, then journey starts,, from childhood, mother always teaches her to sacrifice her wishes,, if she was interested to learn dance or singing,, then family members refused for that,, she accepted ,, then in higher school,, mothers r giving advices that talk with this girl,, don’t talk much with boys, & so on,, then in college,, the biggest tension that every parents has if their daughter will fall in love with another cast boy or poor boy or any bad person,, a girl is grown up with very protected atmosphere in India ,, that they are generally not having their own thinking at some level,, & girls who are thinking on their way are called bad girls,, for girls parents r deciding what to do,, about studies, about friends, about her food about almost everything. Parents are always thinking that their girl is not grown yet that much that she can take her decisions by her own.

I have seen few girls that they are not having their own thinking,, they are doing few things because their parents like it & wish that she should do whatever they said.

May be 20 or 30 % girls are living their life by their own thinking,, though it’s a human right of girl,, when time comes for her marriage,, then the biggest bargain starts for her life,, what parents are thinking of a guy,, that a girl should be soft spoken, educated, must have mixing kind of nature & must take care of whole family,,

Now about the boys of India,, they are unbelievable,, they wish to marry with a perfect girl who must be perfect blend of modern & Indian culture,, all wish to marry a fair, good looking , smart girl with beautiful hair & skin. These are just few requirements of young people.

If somehow few exceptional cases occurs, who are knowing the meaning of marriage,, who believe that marriage is not all about looks ,, it’s about inner beauty, it’s about individual choice rather than family choice,, but for this case,, some times people emotionally blackmail that person that your not mature enough to take your decisions & etcetera .

Now, ,the moral of the article,
I believe that society is having two opposite faces,, one is to show everyone & another is real which they don’t dare to show it to others.

I have seen many mismatches in society who are living with each other only though we can not find love in their relationship,, but because of the fear of society they are living their life by their own risk, Mostly people are confused in their life that which kind of partner they require. They are not able to understand themselves sometimes, but it’s a part of life,, life must go on,, she knows that her life must be full of sacrifices for her career & personal level also. Sometimes at every stage of life she must do sacrifice because of the fear of society & sometimes women are killing their emotions & dreams for their partner & family but no one cares of her sacrifice, they are born to follow the rules made by few people in society.

People are becoming ethic less day by day,, they are not having decision power,, They are cowards. No one wish to do self investigation. Everyone thinks that they are not having any weakness. They are the most intelligent people & whatever they are doing is true for others. To make a comment on other’s work or looks is a easier job but to gain that person’s love & care is the toughest one. No one is ugly in the whole world everyone is unique by their own way.

When it comes to females,, they are brought up with one thought strongly that they must not love anyone without permission of their parents,, they must not study more,, if a girl would like to study more,, most of the case family refuse to do so,, though she is capable.
Who cares about her, the motto of the girl’s life is to make everyone happy & be happy in every situation of life,, husband & parents are perfect in society. They can not do any mistakes in society, if female is working then she must fulfill all the responsibilities,,
Like to take care of home,, food,, children,, parents,, social relations,, occasions,, gifts,,
Saving,, along with her job. What men are doing, they are getting their food on time,, children are studying but men are not having their responsibility,, because when wife is there then no tension at all.. This is Indian culture where a lady is working & maintains personal & professional life with excellence. They are born care takers,, believe me no one is asking about her expectations in life,, her life get finished to fulfill everyone’s wishes.

This is bitter truth but it’s India.