Welcome Everyone,
It has been 63 years that India got Free from British Raj. I would say it was not India but the males got independence from British as for women still Independence is a long way to go. Mohammad Ali Jinnah could foresee that Muslims would not get right in Hindu Country so he demanded Seperate Country. Ambedkar sought Reservation for the less privileged. Unfortunately there was no one to foresee the plight of women in this men's World.
It starts with Birth. In many parts of India still girls are killed prenatally. The right to life is brought to end by the Men in the family. Without having seen the world the poor girl dies just because few men decide that she has no right to be born. Girls are often given less attention than brothers. She is loved by all the family members until she starts asking for time for herself. Girls are forced to live a specific pattern of life designed by parents viz type of friends, food, dress etc etc. Till the age of 16 she has to inform everything to the family who in turn decides what is good and bad for her. She has to protect herself from Child abuse which can be done by close family members or from some near ones.
If she is Fortunate she gets the chance to study further else she has to get married to the boy selected by the family and than take care of husband and kids for whole life. If given a Chance to study most of the time Family decides for the course that she could take which could lead to secured job in future. Plight doesn't stop here. After completing studies she may be given a Chance to work or she has to stay home. If given a chance to work she faces serious sexual abuse which includes Verbal and Physical abuse by other members in office or building.
Having said everything if Girl gets a god job and an understanding Husband, she is still bound to do all the Work for home and office. It is actually expected that she should work like a Super women. Serving Family, Earning for Family and also devoting time for Family and friends and all other people to whom she is related.
Why are the GIRLS not free yet to decide what they should do in life? Why are we still being told what to do and what not to do? GIRLS are actually better creation of GOD than men. World wide women do more work than men, still they are ruled by men. Women do more than 60% of the work. They are paid less than 6% salary and own less than 1% of Property. Why GIRLS are so weak? Reason is GIRLS themselves. They always expected someone else to do something for them. But now the TIME has come to do something by themselves. GIRLS would have to form a Union so that they can solve their own problems, create opportunities for other girls, protect themselves, give dignity and right of life to other GIRLS. We read many stories about Unity in our childhood but tend to forget everything as we grow up and start accepting things instead of challenging things. Here is a short story for your reference which you would have read long back. http://www.indiaparenting.com/stories/panchatantra/panch010.shtml If you agree with me than join me and we will make Difference unitedly.

Indian society

India is called an incredible country because the variety of people one can see here can never be seen in the whole world.

For being a girl in India is a big deal,, when a girl is born in India,, everyone gets happy but in their heart they always to wish for a boy,, then journey starts,, from childhood, mother always teaches her to sacrifice her wishes,, if she was interested to learn dance or singing,, then family members refused for that,, she accepted ,, then in higher school,, mothers r giving advices that talk with this girl,, don’t talk much with boys, & so on,, then in college,, the biggest tension that every parents has if their daughter will fall in love with another cast boy or poor boy or any bad person,, a girl is grown up with very protected atmosphere in India ,, that they are generally not having their own thinking at some level,, & girls who are thinking on their way are called bad girls,, for girls parents r deciding what to do,, about studies, about friends, about her food about almost everything. Parents are always thinking that their girl is not grown yet that much that she can take her decisions by her own.

I have seen few girls that they are not having their own thinking,, they are doing few things because their parents like it & wish that she should do whatever they said.

May be 20 or 30 % girls are living their life by their own thinking,, though it’s a human right of girl,, when time comes for her marriage,, then the biggest bargain starts for her life,, what parents are thinking of a guy,, that a girl should be soft spoken, educated, must have mixing kind of nature & must take care of whole family,,

Now about the boys of India,, they are unbelievable,, they wish to marry with a perfect girl who must be perfect blend of modern & Indian culture,, all wish to marry a fair, good looking , smart girl with beautiful hair & skin. These are just few requirements of young people.

If somehow few exceptional cases occurs, who are knowing the meaning of marriage,, who believe that marriage is not all about looks ,, it’s about inner beauty, it’s about individual choice rather than family choice,, but for this case,, some times people emotionally blackmail that person that your not mature enough to take your decisions & etcetera .

Now, ,the moral of the article,
I believe that society is having two opposite faces,, one is to show everyone & another is real which they don’t dare to show it to others.

I have seen many mismatches in society who are living with each other only though we can not find love in their relationship,, but because of the fear of society they are living their life by their own risk, Mostly people are confused in their life that which kind of partner they require. They are not able to understand themselves sometimes, but it’s a part of life,, life must go on,, she knows that her life must be full of sacrifices for her career & personal level also. Sometimes at every stage of life she must do sacrifice because of the fear of society & sometimes women are killing their emotions & dreams for their partner & family but no one cares of her sacrifice, they are born to follow the rules made by few people in society.

People are becoming ethic less day by day,, they are not having decision power,, They are cowards. No one wish to do self investigation. Everyone thinks that they are not having any weakness. They are the most intelligent people & whatever they are doing is true for others. To make a comment on other’s work or looks is a easier job but to gain that person’s love & care is the toughest one. No one is ugly in the whole world everyone is unique by their own way.

When it comes to females,, they are brought up with one thought strongly that they must not love anyone without permission of their parents,, they must not study more,, if a girl would like to study more,, most of the case family refuse to do so,, though she is capable.
Who cares about her, the motto of the girl’s life is to make everyone happy & be happy in every situation of life,, husband & parents are perfect in society. They can not do any mistakes in society, if female is working then she must fulfill all the responsibilities,,
Like to take care of home,, food,, children,, parents,, social relations,, occasions,, gifts,,
Saving,, along with her job. What men are doing, they are getting their food on time,, children are studying but men are not having their responsibility,, because when wife is there then no tension at all.. This is Indian culture where a lady is working & maintains personal & professional life with excellence. They are born care takers,, believe me no one is asking about her expectations in life,, her life get finished to fulfill everyone’s wishes.

This is bitter truth but it’s India.

EASY PUZZLE

Let's check your Mathematics,

1 = 5
2 = 25
3 = 125
4 = 625
5 = ?

It's very easy, what do u say?

The answer is 1.

Wishes of a blind girl

(1) I wish to travel the whole world,
(2) I wish to see my teacher who gave me vision in life,
(3) I wish to hug my parents who have done so much for me,
(4) I wish to see one day match of India vs Australia live,,
(5) I wish to stay in house boat at Kashmir,
(6) I wish to make a cake for my b’day party,
(7) I wish to become a captain in Indian Airforce
(8) I wish to make rangoli when diwali comes,
(9) I wish to make painting of my grandmother,,
(10) I wish to buy my favorite car City Honda & bike,
(11) I wish to help blind children by teaching them,,
(12) I wish to enter in politics after 10 years
(13) I wish to have a beautiful daughter,
(14) I wish to visit Disney land,
(15) I wish to climb mount Everest,
(16) I wish to do horse riding,
(17) I wish to taste all exotic sweets & chocolates of the whole world,
(18) I wish to dance like a free spirit
(19) I wish to know me & why I’m here on earth
(20) I wish to meet god once & thank to him to send me on this beautiful world,
(21) I wish to read all the books of my interest,
(22) I wish to make others laugh always,
(23) I wish to learn all adventurous sports on the earth,
(24) I wish to make one world record,
(25) I wish to travel to moon once to see it very close to me,
(26) I wish to get my eyes to see & feel all beautiful creation of the Almighty.

The moral of this article is never be sad for anything,, god have made u capable to do all the work whatever u wish to do, believe in you & your dreams,& thank god that he gave you the beautiful eyes,, which is also not given to few people in this world,, so,, your lucky enough,,, go ahead & mark your presence in this world,

LOVE

There is a beautiful place called Florida in U.S.A.

Zizzle was the most happening disco of the city,, youngsters came everyday to forget their sadness & work stress,, to become refresh,, Jack was the hot favorite singer & drummer of the city,, people came at the place to listen his romantic songs & rocking music..

One day he was entering in disco,, he saw a beautiful girl with long golden hair,, she was looking like angel coming at him with smiling face ,,he was getting confused ,, she came near to him,, passed him & hugged a guy standing Behind Jack,, Jack’s heart missed a beat,, he was freezed,, he never felt this kind of feeling before,,

That couple entered in disco,, they gathered with some more friends & enjoyed that night,, another day Jack came for his work,, but when he entered Zizzles,, he remembered her,, his eyes were searching her for that day,, on that day,, he was not able to sleep,, this continued for few days,, then suddenly he saw her at one place which was his favorite place,, she was sitting there & listening music,, now his heartbeat got going faster,, he was not able to understand that why he was feeling that he should talk to her,, then he stopped thinking & just went to close to her bench,, she didn’t noticed him,, she was lost in music,, her eyes were closed & she was listening & enjoying music,, he was start observing her,, she was dressed with dark blue skirt upto knee with a beautiful light pink colored shirt,,

She suddenly opened her eyes & asked,, what do u want?
Jack smiled & said I want you,, then he realized that he should speak out this way at the very first time meeting,, he introduce himself,, & proposed her for friendship,, she said yes,, then both were meeting daily,, she came daily at night to listen him,, Jack loved her name,,Julia,,she was student of law,, time were passing beautifully for both of them,, both were happy with eachother,, they felt that both are perfect for eachother & no one need to change for anyone,,

Suddenly one day Julia didn’t came to meet Jack,, that day Jack was not able to perform,, next day he went to her place ,, but he didn’t get her,, he was feeling that he’ll die without Julia,, he was not able to do anything straight without her,, he took leave for one month from his job,, Owner was also knowing the problem so,, he said it’s ok,, I’ll manage,, I would also like to help you to find Julia,, after 1 month he didn’t get her ,,so,, he came back to job but now,, he was creating sad songs & love songs,, each of his songs were describing his tremendous love for Julia,, time was passing ,,six months had passed,,one day one guy came to meet Jack & said I know where is Julia,, I’m her cousin,, she told me everything about you & she was not wishing that I would tell you about her,, I think that I should let you to meet her,,

He hugged him & said that your giving me my life back,, I would like to meet her now,,
Both went & came to a beautiful house in which garden was decorated with lots of beautiful flowers,, Jack entered to home,, Julia was preparing dinner,, Jack closed her eyes but his hands were wet when he took them back,, Julia turns,, she was looking tired ,,but though beautiful,, she was not able to understand that what to do? Jack took her in his hands & sat her in sofa, he was sitting on his knee on earth,, Jack aksed her what made her to leave him,,she was crying & was not able to speak,, her cousin said that she was having cancer at last stage,, she covered her hairs with a beautiful cloth, her hairs were falling, she was loosing her charm,, she was having last few days of her life,,

Jack went back to home,, Next day he came to Julia,, he got down on knees ,, with a diamond ring in his hand & smile on his face,, his eyes were looking tired but still sparking, he said her that no matter how long you will live,, no matter you are Ill,, no matter if you will reject me,, but this is only one wish of my life is that would life to share my each moment with you ,, only with you,, I want to create memories for my whole life so,, I can live truely,, if you will say no to me then I’ll be a person without soul because my soul is worthy with you only,, will you be mine soul partner forever ?

Julia said yes with crying eyes & shivering body,, her heart was making race with Jack’s heartbeat,, her eyes were not stopping crying,, she was thinking that I got everything in my life,, nothing was remaining back,, & in a church they got married,,

Jack took long leave from his job,, & promised his friend & owner of the disco that he will be back,, then Jack made a list of what to do,, he was proposing Julia everyday with different manner,, he was making her laugh all the day,, he was taking care of her medicines,, he was making food for both,, they were watching movies of Julia’s selection, everyday at evening they went to church to pray to god,, Jack were recording every day’s beautiful moments with Julia,,, then one day Julia slept in Jack’s arms but next day she didn’t waked up,,

Jack cried a lot on that day,, but he was knowing it from the start,, he made a house full of julia’s pictures which was captured by him in beautiful motions,, he came back to work,, he had decided to work there for lifelong at that place,, he was making all kind of music,, at night daily he was writing one letter to Julia about all day’s experience,, he never felt that she was not with her at any moment of his life,, he also composed songs & became well known musician of the world,, he was awarded by many awards,,when someone asked him the secret of his success he said her wife Julia & god who arranged his first meeting with her,,when he dead, he had said his lawyer to give his all property to one trust who was helping patients who are infected by HIV,, & he was having a last wish to publish his all letters in a book form to give a gift as remembrance to his admirers who gave him respect & love for whole life,, The book was published with a name “MY LUV JULIA”..

LUV IS SACRIFICE

Love is sacrifice

When I saw u first time,, I was curious to know abt u ,was that luv?When u looked at me ,,I was feeling that I was most beautiful girl of whole universe,was that luv?

When u told me that u liked me,,I was feeling like flying,,was that luv?

When v met ,,everytime I felf butterflies flying in my stomach,was that luv?

When I changed my life to make u happy ,,was that luv?

When v went for long drives ,,,time spent like sand in hands,,was that luv?

When v started talking,, it never came to finish our talk,,was that luv?
When v were walking on sands on sea shore,,I thought that I was the luckiest girl who got soul parter like u,,, was that luv?
When v met ,,our talks never finished & heart felf sad when v aparted,was that luv?
When I said u that for u world is everything but for me ur my world,,was that luv?
When our relation was getting more stronger by passing days,,was that luv?

When u proposed me by saying be mine soul partner,,was that luv?

When u got upset if not talked with me for one day ,,was that luv?

But when u left me without saying anything ,,,I’m still living in one hope that u’ll be back one day ,,no matter how long it’ll be,,no matter in which condition u’ll be in future but for me when u went from that day my eyes r not feeling tired,, my heart never missed to beat for u,my mind never tired by remembering u,all I wish to see u soon,,is this luv?

Childhood

One day i open my eyes & I got god standing in front of me,,
I asked him who r u? he said I’m almighty,,
I asked so,, u can give me anything I wish,,
He said yes,, ask me,,whatever u wish but only once I’ll fulfill it,,
So, I got confused,,he was smiling by seeing me in such a condition & enjoying,,
I got angry on him that cant u give me many wishes to fulfill,,
He smiled & said ur wishes must be countless if I’ll say u to think even,,
I thought he was right,,then I closed my eyes & got my wish,,
I said him make me child again,,he laughed & asked y ,,,
I said that I was happiest person when I was kid,,
I was prince for all & I got everything from dad & mom whatever I ever wished,,
I was pampered by people ,,cared & luved by everyone,,
I was so innocent & careless,,I was able to do whatever I wish without asking anything to anyone or thinking that what society will think of me,,what will happen to my reputation,
I was able to wander wherever I wish, I was playing with my friends & pets,,
I was so cute that everyone forgive me for every mischief of mine,,,
I was feeling like the king those days,,

So, my lord,,I wish to live that life again & always wish to remain as kid to live life with luv & fun with bit of careness & naughtyness,,,,,,,,,